Sunday, January 31, 2010

SUCCESSFUL DATING TIPS

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Its all about dating on line, getting hooked up fast, kissing and telling and letting us know how you felt about after that horrible heartbreak.We are here to cushion and help you deal with the post -heartbreak period.The target is, getting the right partner after all those trouble, this is our ultimate aim.

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Honestly, who is going take me seriously on this, but if you have the time, just stick with me and you might discover just what you did wrong and how you went you went wrong on that date that you seriously needed to keep for good.Going out on a date is becoming a difficult business these days.What with people working from the before of the rising of the sun to many hours after the sun had set, getting home too tired to get out of office clothes, or take a bath, or take dinner, straight to bed and off to sleep.Do people really have the patience to spend quality time with a partner to know the partner beyond the superficial?the time is not there, people do not date anymore, because the use all their waking up time to make money and pursue career interests.Then, why won't we have quantum of matrimonial break-ups? why won't a guy or a girl have many heartbreaks before finally hitting off with the right person, which could still only last for few months or few years , if you are lucky, after marriage.Reason(s)?No time to date.There is still hope.We can save ourselves all the heartbreaks, all the wasteful spendings , all the lies and deceits, if we could just follow some useful dating tips.These tips are available on line.Maybe, you dot have the time too to surf the net for important information on dating?Come to think of it, most dating sites do not give real life dating tips.This is where we are different.

How are we different?

 We let you  tell your story on this blog.We stand behind you and urge you tell your story in the simplest language possible, so that we can all share in your pains, grief and see where and how we can help you.Maybe, there could be someone out there who may genuine sympathies towards and who may want to take away the pains permanently by being your life partner, you would never know untill you let us have and publish your dating woes or mistakes or just plain misfortune.Well, some may not want to share their griefs with the public, we want to assure such people that their identity would be adequately protected, while at the same time exploring the best ways to help those that fall into this category.Honestly, I believe no human being should grief alone, because, you know the truism, that a problem shared is a problem half solved.You don't have to leave your work to date , you can do it right from your laptop, blackberry, phone or desktop right from your office, car and home.So, start dating and start revealing those avoidable mistakes you made, or your date made, that ultimately destroyed that budding relationship which had all the signs of a successfull one.Like I mentioned earlier, you would be encouraged and led to tell your story and, you would be encouraged to invite that date to read your story and state his/her own side of the story.The goal? will, ofcourse,be how we can get both of you together successfully and if you want us to attend the wedding , we would be there.Remember, it is going to be team work.

How is it going to work?

Along with your story, we would like to have your profile, just the basic things.Your name, phone number, sex and email address.Be rest assured that none of your details would be shared with any other party except with your written approval.We wouldn't like anybody to invade your privacy,nobody has the right to do that.The reason, for the phone number and email address is for us to contact you when your partner is ready to give it another try.We also have the online match make services for those who desire it.The goal remember is to help you save as much money as possible and still enjoy your romantic life.

When is it the right time?

I have made some dating mistakes myself.Do you want to here them?Do you that you could have the hots for a girl in your neigbourhood for sometimes and you honestly believe that if you could make her yours then you won't look for any other woman.Seriously, because you know you want to marry her.Okay, ehre comes the chance for you to chat her up.You have where both of you can talk privately at an exclusive joint.You end up telling her about all the interesting things in the your world without telling her the one most exciting thing , the fact that you want to keep her for real.And do you know you could repeat this process at different occassions, different setting, untill the poor girl gets bored and turned off and refuses to honour your invitation anymore.Why? you are not serious.She believes so and she says so.So, when is it the right time to tell her, you need her for life?Some people believe you have to test the waters for sometimes before popping the big question, but this is a lady you have been studying from a distance for sometimes before making your moves.So, how long is ideal before asking that very important question?Check out this scenario; you have a good job , a decent accomodation, some cars and your career progree is on the rise, so money cannot be your problem.Okay, she is comfortable in her own way, so what is stopping you from telling from day one that this is what you want?I don't have all the answers, I do not have the right answer to this question, so let me here from you.

Send your stories.

It is important for you to send those stories in, so that we can start analyzing them in an effort to proffer the right solutions.So, let us have them.

What do you think?

An After Thought:

It is human to have an after thought , so please you would to excuse me.I just want to state the format below:

  1.  You can send in your stories with initials of the characters and not real names please, this is to protect our privacy, thanks,
  2.  You could either contact the other party directly, to send his/her own side of the story ,or, you let us handle that by giving us your partner's contact details.You can do both.
Have a wonderful time on this blog, keep dating , don't give up on dating.